VIVAH

 

Marriages are made in Heaven

Marriages are made in heaven and celebrated on earth. Here we will talk about the real essence of marriage and its significance in our life.

What is a Marriage?

 

Marriage is uniquely beneficial to society because it is the foundation of the family and the basic building block of society.
 

  • It brings significant stability and meaning to human relationships
  • It remains the ideal for the raising of children. 

  • It plays an important role in transferring culture and civilization into future generations.

Marriage is not merely a private contract, but a social institution of great public concern.

The True Meaning Of Marriage- When people marry, they often marry because of love sometimes because of the package like wealth, beauty, bank balance, and everything but that’s normal desire. The true meaning of marriage is commitment. Commitment basically holds the bonds of marriage even when attitudes and beauty changed, commitment never losses its value. So when love eventually disappear because of the complexities and problems of marriage, you never give up your family and file for divorce. Commitment is there to keep the family and keep the relationship. You will realize later that you may have the ability and the opportunity to hop from one partner to another and end up with nothing. Troubles come and troubles go but the relationship must learn to survive. Revive the loving and the caring by a spark of romance. The problem with preoccupation is attention. At least when you talk to each other you make eye contact and not reading newspapers or brewing coffee. Funny but aren’t we accepting that we are doing this most of the time?A thread that bounds two lifes and two families and many of the two family members and their relatives as relatives.its a sense of relation ,its a sense of love ,sense of attraction sense of adjustment ,sense of minute egos ,sense of a lovely fight during days which came to peace at bed with romance.

"We must develop and maintain the capacity to forgive. He who is devoid of the power to forgive is devoid of the power to love."

 

Tips for a Happy and Successful Marriage

Enter the Marriage with the Right Intention and Renew this Often

Do Not Hold Unrealistic Expectations

Emphasize the Best in Your Spouse

Be Your Mate’s Best Friend

Spend Quality Time Together

Express Feelings Often

Admit to Mistakes and ask for Forgiveness

Never Bring up Mistakes of the Past

Surprise Each Other at Times

Have a Sense of Humour

Don't Compare: Do not enter into comparisons. No one is 100% perfect or 100% imperfect. We all have flaws and shortcomings. Always look at the good qualities of your spouse.

Don't Forget to Compliment: Make use of "Thank you", "Well done", "You have done a good job", and "I am sorry", as frequently as is necessary. Be generous in your praise and compliments

You can never be happily married to another until you get a divorce from yourself. Successful marriage demands a certain death to self..

"A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, and always with the same person."